At the start of the year, I posted that I understand the fascination and draw that so many women have to the character, Mr Grey, in the 50 Shades books and film…
With a little more reflection, I feel the need to say some more.
Whilst I can see the attraction, for all the reasons I described in my previous blog, I also didn’t tell you, in my other post, that I only read the first book and that I choose not to read the others or to see the film.
Because… even though… I feel, from the core of my feminine heart, that I long for a strong masculine energy to meet me and hold me. I DO NOT support the way, I see, the books and film portray something, again, from my viewpoint, that is abuse, as something sexy and glamourous.
When I talked previously, of understandig the attraction, it is simply the attraction of a strong man that I understand, one who I can lean in to and feel safe with. I do not, understand the attraction of being controlled and disempowered, in the way I see, at least, the one book I have read describes.
So, having shared more of my truth with you, I feel I have clarified and said all I need to say.
I’m now curious, what do you think? I’d love for you to share in the bubble on this page,
Love to you,