Do you ever worry that you’re just a bit too much?

I wonder, do you ever worry that you’re just a bit too much?

Too emotional, too sensitive, too ‘out there’, too ‘over the top’, too woo woo, too enthusiatic, too anything really…

Some time ago, I realised that I’d been walking around with a monkey on my back, for, well… for a long time… for as long as I can remember.

I was aware it had something to do with not feeling safe. I sensed that I didn’t feel safe… in life, in my relationships, in what I’m offering the world in terms of my gifts/my work. I discovered that the feeling, the fear, was literally, everywhere. It was all over my life.

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Are you a pioneer?

Are you a pioneer?

I wonder, do you consider yourself to be a pioneer?

I just looked up the dictionary definition of “pioneer”, and it says…

“pioneer : a person who is among the first to explore or settle a new country or area.”

I’m curious to explore what that means for us, in the world we are living in today.

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The story I’ve not yet told you

There’s a part of my life, a story, that I’ve not yet told you. And now, feels like the right time to tell it.

I know that this story wants to be told, I’ve known it for some time. The problem I’ve been encountering, is how to tell it, AND, the reason behind why I want to tell it. You see, it’s not something I feel clear on, certain about, or something that I completely understand. It’s more like, the not telling of it, is proving too heavy to hold. I feel a need to share it, that I want to share it, for myself, for you, for all of us. I want to lay this down.

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The HUGE benefits of taking time out

It’s been a few weeks since I last wrote a blog post. I wanted to write today, to let you know, I’m still here, and, I’m still very much committed to what I’m doing here. I just needed to give myself the gift of some time and space over the past few weeks, to, well… to simply by with myself.

There’s two things that have popped up in my awareness over that time. I’m now in the process of exploring them both… deeper, more, further…  I’ll be talking more about them as we go forward from here.

It all feels very exciting!

In short, being really brief, and to give you just a flavour for now… the first thing is this…

‘BEING NESS’ It’s seems ever more, that the way many people are chosing to live, is through making their ‘being ness’ a priority, rather than what many of us have done a lot in the past, which is to look ‘out there’, or to external and materialistic things to bring us happiness, peace, love, joy. Continue reading

The 3 Keys to Unlocking Your True Happiness and Deep Fulfilment – Part 3

The 3rd Key

“Making time to play”

If you’re anything like a lot of women (me included), when we reached a certain age, somehow, and for whatever reasons, we stopped making time to play.

It’s easy to let all the things that have to be done, and all the roles we take on, become all consuming and sometimes overwhelming.

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The 3 Keys to Unlocking Your True Happiness and Deep Fulfilment – Part 1

This is the first in a series of 3 blog posts that I wrote last year. It’s SO vital, that we, as women, remember these 3 things, that I’ve decided to re-post “The 3 keys to Unlocking Your True Happiness and Fulfilment”, starting here with The 1st Key. I hope you enjoy!

The 1st Key

“Taking super good care of yourself” Continue reading